Thursday, July 25, 2013

Minding Your Manners – A lost Art


I have a pet hate.  Well, I have a few, but one of the main ones is bad manners.  
For many years I worked in PR, Marketing and Event production, areas that demanded impeccable courtesy to people I worked for as well as to clients and customer/consumers.  I have developed an engrained high standard of how I behave in professionally circumstances and how I feel others should behave while on the job.  A fairly strict, old fashion upbringing by older parents, had something to do with this as well.
Don’t get me wrong, I know very well how to behave badly, but there is a time and place for good or bad behavior.  On the job, I try to deliver the best possible service, promptly and courteously.  But when I don’t get the same service from others, a piece of the beauty of life dims and fades.
It really is simple, acknowledge the other person and offer them the same respect you would like to be given to you.
If that shop assistant greets you, respond in a pleasant manner, don’t snub her.  Say good morning to the bus driver, most will respond, the odd one will just ignore you, but greet them anyway!
If someone is chasing your business or yourself for money, apologize and speak pleasantly to them. Don’t call them a dickhead, as I was called just the over day…  Not good manners.
Set the standard and inspire others to behaving better towards those around them. It just makes a happier world to live in. xxxx

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